The Best Children’s Books About Good And Bad Behavior
“What are the best Children books about Behavior?” We looked at 168 of the top Kids Behavior books, aggregating and ranking them so we could answer that very question!
The top 15 titles, all appearing on 2 or more “Best Children’s Behavior” book lists, are ranked below by how many lists they appear on. The remaining 150+ titles, as well as the lists we used are in alphabetical order at the bottom of the page.
Happy Scrolling!
Top 15 Childrens Books About Behavior
15 .) Calm-Down Time written by Elizabeth Verdick and Marieka Heinlen
Lists It Appears On:
- Barnes And Noble
- Rhythms Of Play
Simple text and illustrations explain to young children how to calm down.
14 .) Do Unto Otters: A Book About Manners written by Laurie Keller
Lists It Appears On:
- Romper
- Scholastic
Mr. Rabbit doesn’t know how to treat his new neighbors the Ottes who have moved next door. The story highlights how to be a good neighbor and friend–by simply following the golden rule!
13 .) Enemy Pie written by Derek Munson
Lists It Appears On:
- Doing Good Together
- We Are Teachers
Hoping that the enemy pie which his father makes will help him get rid of his enemy, a little boy finds that instead it helps make a new friend.
12 .) Last Stop On Market Street written by Matt de la Peña
Lists It Appears On:
- Romper
- We Are Teachers
A young boy rides the bus across town with his grandmother and learns to appreciate the beauty in everyday things.
11 .) Lilly’s Purple Plastic Purse written by Kevin Henkes
Lists It Appears On:
- Pragmatic Mom
- We Are Teachers
Lilly loves everything about school, especially her teacher, but when he asks her to wait a while before showing her new purse, she does something for which she is very sorry later.
10 .) Millie Fierce written by Jane Manning
Lists It Appears On:
- Read Brightly
- We Are Teachers
Tired of being overlooked, Millie takes on a loud and obnoxious personality, which makes people notice her–for a little while.
9 .) My Mouth Is a Volcano! written by Julia Cook
Lists It Appears On:
- Fatherly
- We Are Teachers
This book teaches children to manage their thoughts and words without interrupting.
8 .) No Hitting!: A Lift-the-Flap Book written by Karen Katz
Lists It Appears On:
- Barnes And Noble
- Rhythms Of Play
Children learn alternative actions to hitting when they are mad as they say NO to hitting and YES to fun!
7 .) Rude Cakes written by Rowboat Watkins
Lists It Appears On:
- Fatherly
- Romper
A story about a rude cake who never says please or thank you or listens to its parents, and a Giant Cyclops who is polite.
6 .) Stand In My Shoes: Kids Learning About Empathy written by Bob Sornson
Lists It Appears On:
- Doing Good Together
- Romper
After Emily asks her big sister what the word empathy means, Emily decides to pay closer attention to others during her day.
5 .) Teeth Are Not for Biting (Best Behavior Series) written by Elizabeth Verdick and Marieka Heinlen
Lists It Appears On:
- Barnes And Noble
- Rhythms Of Play
Early Years series providing simple words and colourful illustrations designed to guide children to choose peaceful, positive behaviour.
4 .) Those Shoes written by Maribeth Boelts
Lists It Appears On:
- Romper
- We Are Teachers
Jeremy, who longs to have the black high tops that everyone at school seems to have but his grandmother cannot afford, is excited when he sees them for sale in a thrift shop and decides to buy them even though they are the wrong size.
3 .) Llama Llama Mad At Mama written by Anna Dewdney
Lists It Appears On:
- Fatherly
- Parents
- Read Brightly
Mama has just a little shopping to do but Llama Llama isn’t happy at all! He wants to be playing, not shopping and soon everything is flying out of the shopping cart! It’s another llama drama. Can Mama Llama fix it?
2 .) The Way I Feel written by Janan Cain
Lists It Appears On:
- Childhood 101
- Read Brightly
- We Are Teachers
Illustrations and rhyming text portray children experiencing a range of emotions, including frustration, shyness, jealousy, and pride.
1 .) When Sophie Gets Angry–Really, Really Angry written by Molly Bang
Lists It Appears On:
- Childhood 101
- Pragmatic Mom
- Read Brightly
- Rhythms Of Play
- We Are Teachers
A young girl is upset and doesn’t know how to manage her anger but takes the time to cool off and regain her composure.
The 150+ Additional Best Good Behavior Children’s Books
# | Books | Authors | Lists |
16 | 100th Day Worries | Margery Cuyler | e2e Publishing |
17 | A Book of Feelings | Amanda McCardie | Childhood 101 |
18 | A Sick Day for Amos McGee | Philip C. Stead | We Are Teachers |
19 | A Volcano in My Tummy: Helping Children to Handle Anger | Eliane Whitehouse (Author) and Warwick Pudney (Author) | Rhythms Of Play |
20 | Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day | Read Brightly | |
21 | All Kinds of Feelings | Sheri Safran | Childhood 101 |
22 | Angry Octopus: An Anger Management Story introducing active progressive muscular relaxation and deep breathing | Lori Lite (author) and Max Stasuyk (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
23 | Argyle Fox | Marie Letourneau | We Are Teachers |
24 | Bear says “thank you” | Playful Notes | |
25 | Because Amelia Smiled | David Ezra Stein | We Are Teachers |
26 | Best, Best Friends | Pragmatic Mom | |
27 | Big Tree is Sick: A Story to Help Children Cope with the Serious Illness of a Loved One | Nathalie Slosse | We Are Teachers |
28 | Clark the Shark | Bruce Hale | We Are Teachers |
29 | Clifford’s manners | Playful Notes | |
30 | Cool Down and Work Through Anger | Cheri J. Meiners M.Ed. | Rhythms Of Play |
31 | Crabby Pants | Julie Gassman | We Are Teachers |
32 | Cry, Heart, But Never Break | Glenn Ringtved | We Are Teachers |
33 | Curious George | Pragmatic Mom | |
34 | David and the Worry Beast | Anne Marie Guanci | e2e Publishing |
35 | David Gets In Trouble | David Shannon | We Are Teachers |
36 | Don’t Think About Purple Elephants | Susanne Merritt | We Are Teachers |
37 | Drum Dream Girl: How One Girl’s Courage Changed Music | Margarita Engle | We Are Teachers |
38 | Duck & Goose | Parents | |
39 | Emily’s Sharing and Caring Book | Playful Notes | |
40 | Emmanuel’s Dream: The True Story of Emmanuel Ofosu Yeboah | Laurie Ann Thompson | We Are Teachers |
41 | Emotional Intensity in Gifted Students: Helping Kids Cope with Explosive Feelings. | Parent Books | |
42 | Everyone Can Learn to Ride a Bicycle | Chris Raschka | We Are Teachers |
43 | Extraordinary Jane | Hannah E. Harrison | We Are Teachers |
44 | Feelings | Aliki | Childhood 101 |
45 | Feet Are Not for Kicking | Elizabeth Verdick (Author) and Marieka Heinlen (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
46 | Finally | Pragmatic Mom | |
47 | Finn Throws A Fit | Fatherly | |
48 | First Day Jitters | Julie Danneberg | Scholastic |
49 | Five Nice Mice | Parents | |
50 | Genius! Nurturing the Spirit of the Wild, Odd and Oppositional Child. | Parent Books | |
51 | Giraffes Can’t Dance | Giles Andreae | We Are Teachers |
52 | Glad Monster Sad Monster | Anne Miranda and Ed Emberley | Childhood 101 |
53 | Grumpy Bird | Parents | |
54 | Hands Are Not for Hitting | Martine Agassi Ph.D. (Author) and Marieka Heinlen (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
55 | Hey Warrior! | Karen Young | e2e Publishing |
56 | Hippo says “Excuse me” | Playful Notes | |
57 | How Big Are Your Worries Little Bear? | Jayneen Sanders | e2e Publishing |
58 | How Do Dinosaurs Say I’m Mad? | Fatherly | |
59 | How I Became a Pirate | Pragmatic Mom | |
60 | How To Speak Politely And Why | Munro Leaf | Romper |
61 | How to Take the Grrrr Out of Anger | Elizabeth Verdick | Rhythms Of Play |
62 | I Am so Angry, I Could Scream: Helping Children Deal with Anger | Laura Fox (Author) and Chris Sabatino (Author) | Rhythms Of Play |
63 | I Hate Everything! A Book about Feeling Angry | Sue Graves (Author) and Desideria Guicciardini (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
64 | I Want My Hat Back | Jon Klassen | We Are Teachers |
65 | I Was So Mad | Mercer Mayer | Rhythms Of Play |
66 | I’m a Girl! | Yasmeen Ismail | We Are Teachers |
67 | I’m Furious | Elizabeth Crary (Author) and Jean Whitney (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
68 | I’m Mad | Elizabeth Crary (Author) and Jean Whitney (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
69 | I’m Not Bad, I’m just Mad: A Workbook to Help Kids Control Their Anger | Anna Greenwald (Author), Zack Pelta-Heller (Author), and Lawrence Shapiro Ph.D. (Author) | Rhythms Of Play |
70 | In My Heart: A Book of Feelings | Jo Witek | Childhood 101 |
71 | It’s Okay to Make Mistakes | Todd Parr | e2e Publishing |
72 | Jabari Jumps | Gaia Cornwall | We Are Teachers |
73 | Lacey Walker, Nonstop Talker | Christianne C. Jones | We Are Teachers |
74 | Learning to Listen, Learning to Care: a Workbook to Help Kids Learn Self-Control and Empathy. | Parent Books | |
75 | Life | Cynthia Rylant | We Are Teachers |
76 | Little Dinos Don’t Push | Michael Dahl and Adam Record | Barnes And Noble |
77 | Little Dinos don’t yell | Playful Notes | |
78 | Little elephant listens | Playful Notes | |
79 | Little lion shares | Playful Notes | |
80 | Little Monkey Calms Down | Fatherly | |
81 | Llama Llama Time to Share | Playful Notes | |
82 | Lying Up a Storm | Julia Cook | We Are Teachers |
83 | Mad Isn’t Bad: A Child’s Book about Anger | Mundy Michaelene (Author) and R. W. Alley (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
84 | Maddi’s Fridge | Lois Brandt | Romper |
85 | Manners time | Playful Notes | |
86 | May I please have a cookie? | Playful Notes | |
87 | Mending the Broken Bond: the 90-Day Answer to Developing a Loving Relationship with Your Child. | Parent Books | |
88 | Miss Nelson is Missing | Harry Allard | Scholastic |
89 | Missing Mommy: A Book About Bereavement | Rebecca Cobb | We Are Teachers |
90 | Mouse says sorry | Playful Notes | |
91 | Mouse Was Mad | Fatherly | |
92 | My Many Coloured Days | Dr Seuss | Childhood 101 |
93 | My Very Own Space | Pippa Goodhart | We Are Teachers |
94 | Nadia: The Girl Who Couldn’t Sit Still | Karlin Gray | We Are Teachers |
95 | No More Meltdowns: Positive Strategies for Managing and Preventing Out-of-Control Behavior. | Parent Books | |
96 | No, David! | Pragmatic Mom | |
97 | Officer Buckle and Gloria | Peggy Rathmann | Scholastic |
98 | Oops, Sorry!: A First Book Of Manners | Richard Morgan | Romper |
99 | Optimistic Parenting: Hope and Help for You and Your Challenging Child. | Parent Books | |
100 | Ordinary Mary’s Extraordinary Deed | Emily Pearson | We Are Teachers |
101 | Pablo And His Chair | Fatherly | |
102 | Parenting with Positive Behavior Support: a Practical Guide to Resolving Your Child’s Difficult Behavior. | Parent Books | |
103 | Pass It On | Sophy Henn | We Are Teachers |
104 | Penguin says please | Playful Notes | |
105 | Pippi Longstocking | Pragmatic Mom | |
106 | Rulers of the Playground | Joseph Kuefler | We Are Teachers |
107 | Ruthie and the (Not So) Teeny Tiny Lie | Laura Rankin | We Are Teachers |
108 | Sam’s Pet Temper | Fatherly | |
109 | School Success for Kids with Emotional and Behavioral Disorders. | Parent Books | |
110 | Seeing Red: An Anger Management and Anti-Bullying Curriculum for Kids | Jennifer Simmonds | Rhythms Of Play |
111 | Soda Pop Head | Fatherly | |
112 | Sorry, I Forgot to Ask! | Julia Cook | Romper |
113 | Stick and Stone | Beth Ferry | We Are Teachers |
114 | Sunday Chutney | Aaron Blabey | We Are Teachers |
115 | Tails Are Not for Pulling (Best Behavior Series) | Elizabeth Verdick and Marieka Heinlen | Barnes And Noble |
116 | Taming the Spirited Child: Strategies for Parenting Challenging Children Without Breaking Their Spirits. | Parent Books | |
117 | The Adventures of Stretch More: Pick-Your-Path Stories for Solving Problems Together. | Parent Books | |
118 | The Book of Mistakes | Corinna Luyken | We Are Teachers |
119 | The Cardboard Shack Beneath the Bridge | Tim Huff | Romper |
120 | The Color Monster | Anna Llenas | Childhood 101 |
121 | The Crayon Box that Talked | Shane Derolf | We Are Teachers |
122 | The Dark | Lemony Snicket | We Are Teachers |
123 | The Defiant Child: a Parent’s Guide to Oppositional Defiant Disorder. | Parent Books | |
124 | The Dot | Peter H. Reynolds | We Are Teachers |
125 | The Feelings Book | Todd Parr | Childhood 101 |
126 | The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes | Mark Pett | We Are Teachers |
127 | The Great Big Book of Feelings | Mary Hoffman | Childhood 101 |
128 | The Grouchy Ladybug | Read Brightly | |
129 | The Heart and the Bottle | Oliver Jeffers | We Are Teachers |
130 | The Huge Bag of Worries | Virginia Ironside | e2e Publishing |
131 | The Invisible Boy | Trudy Ludwig | We Are Teachers |
132 | The Invisible String | Patrice Karst | We Are Teachers |
133 | The Kazdin Method for Parenting the Defiant Child: With No Pills, No Therapy, No Contest of Wills. | Parent Books | |
134 | The Memory String | Eve Bunting | We Are Teachers |
135 | The Quiet Book | Deborah Underwood | Childhood 101 |
136 | The Recess Queen | Alexis O’Neil | Doing Good Together |
137 | The Sneetches and Other Stories | Dr. Seuss | Romper |
138 | The Tale of Pip & Squeak | Parents | |
139 | The Teacher from the Black Lagoon | Mike Thaler | Scholastic |
140 | The Unbudgeable Curmudgeon | Read Brightly | |
141 | The Very Frustrated Monster | Andi Green | Rhythms Of Play |
142 | The Way I Act | Steve Metzger and Janan Cain | Barnes And Noble |
143 | Theo’s Mood | MaryAnn Cocca-Leffler | Childhood 101 |
144 | There Are No Animals In This Book | Childhood 101 | |
145 | There Might Be Lobsters | Carolyn Crimi | We Are Teachers |
146 | Thing-Thing | Carly Fagan | Romper |
147 | This Is The Rope: A Story From The Great Migration | Jacqueline Woodson | Romper |
148 | Tight Times | Barbara Shook Hazen | Romper |
149 | Today I Feel Silly: And Other Moods That Make My Day | Jamie Lee Curtis | Childhood 101 |
150 | Too Shy for Show-and-Tell | Beth Bracken | We Are Teachers |
151 | Two Bad Ants | Pragmatic Mom | |
152 | Voices Are Not For Yelling | Elizabeth Verdick (Author) and Marieka Heinlen (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
153 | We’re All Wonders | R. J. Palacio | We Are Teachers |
154 | What if everybody did that? | Playful Notes | |
155 | What to Do When You Worry Too Much | Dawn Huebner | e2e Publishing |
156 | What to Do When Your Temper Flares: A Kid’s Guide to Overcoming Problems With Anger | Dawn Huebner (Author) and Bonnie Matthews (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
157 | What Were You Thinking? Learning To Control Your Impulses | Bryan Smith | Barnes And Noble |
158 | What Your Explosive Child is Trying to Tell You: Discovering the Pathway from Symptoms to Solutions. | Parent Books | |
159 | When I Feel Angry | Albert Whitman | Rhythms Of Play |
160 | When I’m Feeling books | Trace Moroney The Five Mile Press | Childhood 101 |
161 | When Miles Got Mad | Sam Kurtzman-Counter (Author) and Abbie Schiller (Author) | Rhythms Of Play |
162 | When Mouse Was Mad | Linda Urban (Author) and Henry Cole (Illustrator) | Rhythms Of Play |
163 | When My Worries Get too Big | Kari Dunn Buron | e2e Publishing |
164 | When Worry Takes Hold | Liz Haske | e2e Publishing |
165 | Will Powers: Where There’s A Will, There’s A Way | Coy Bowles | Romper |
166 | Wilma Jean the Worry Machine | Julia Cook | e2e Publishing |
167 | Words Are Not for Hurting | Elizabeth Verdick | Rhythms Of Play |
168 | YOU WILL BE MY FRIEND! | Peter Brown | We Are Teachers |
14 Best Children’s Behavior Book Sources/Lists
Source | Article |
Barnes And Noble | 7 Picture Books to Help Kids With Hitting, Biting, or Shoving |
Childhood 101 | 16 Awesome Kids Books Exploring Feelings and Emotions |
Doing Good Together | A Growing List of Picture Books about Bullies, Bystanders, and Being |
e2e Publishing | 10 Best Children’s Books to Help Kids with Anxiety |
Fatherly | 10 Children’s Books That Teach Kids How to Handle Tantrums |
Parent Books | Children with Behaviour Challenges Booklist |
Parents | 5 Books to Promote Good Behavior |
Playful Notes | 13 children books about manners that are great for toddlers |
Pragmatic Mom | Top 10 Children’s Books: Trying Out New (Bad) Behavior |
Read Brightly | All the Feels: 7 Books to Help Kids with Their Emotions |
Rhythms Of Play | Children’s Books About Anger Management for Toddlers to Teens |
Romper | 15 Children’s Books That Teach Your Child Not To Be Entitled |
Scholastic | 5 Back-to-School Books That Teach Classroom Behavior |
We Are Teachers | 50 Must-Have Picture Books About Emotion |